Asking advice from you guys

Help, I need advice from a love doctor or anyone who's ever been in a relationship!

I'm 20 years old and as you can see, I'm still single. Never had any relationships. My excuse is "I haven't found her yet." I have a friend who's really good with the girls. That's the only thing he's good at. He's a douchebag, but still one of my closest friend. Now one day, he introduced me to one of her gal friends. Now she's madly in love with me. I dont know what to do. I dont know what I feel about her. I dont feel anything "special". Now I'm facing a problem, my friends keep on pressuring me into going out with her. I don't know a single thing about "relationships" I'm new to all of this. The thing is, it happened all so fast. She really isn't my type. But if I ever got into a relationship, I won't be lonely anymore. It would make me the happiest man. I've been a "foreveralone" for so long, I even got into depression.

So guys, let me ask you this. Should I follow my heart or follow my friends? Should I stop right now or continue on searching?

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Cairos 2016-04-10 23:07:00

Just go on the date, dude. You're not marrying her.
Who knows? You might learn something new.

lynn-ng 2016-04-11 08:24:53

You don't need to feel something special to go out with someone. Go out with her and try to have fun: you don't have to "score" or anything, just meet her and see if you like spending time with her.
Besides, I doubt she's "madly in love" with you, since as far as I understand you don't know each other so much. She may find you attractive and interesting, but falling in love usually involves knowing the other a little bit more. So, try not to feel too much under pressure: it's just a date, and however badly things go you will just spend some time with a girl you don't like. But you may find that you like her, maybe just as a friend (or maybe more, who knows?), so it's worth trying, isn't it?

KoltonKennedy 2016-04-11 08:24:53

Thanks a lot for the advice! When it comes to love, I'm dead serious. I just don't want to mess up and make a wrong decision that will make me regret it forever.

ScarletRequiem 2016-04-24 21:06:17

And did you went in a date with her? I'm curious...

KoltonKennedy 2016-04-24 21:06:17

I didn't. I finally told my friends the truth, that I didn't like her. They finally stopped pressuring me. They seem to be a little disappointed but they understood my feelings at the end. She really wasn't the right person.